Sasha was at home wondering whether to stay in or go out. His girlfriend looked over to him and suggested that they head out somewhere:
– “Let’s go into town and catch that new film, Insurgent. I’ve been dying to see it! Ohh, Four..”
– “Ok, that sounds like a plan. But I hope it’s not one of those rom-coms, I’ve had enough of those!” He sighed.
The topic of making recommendations and suggestions came up last week in a class when someone suggested going out for lunch:
“My suggestion is to go to a restaurant nearby…”
The thing is, in regular everyday speech, learners of English often sound quite formal compared to ‘native’ speakers of English.
For recommending doing something with a friend or someone who you speak with in a more friendly manner, try using some of these phrases:
Phrases For Recommending
- Let’s go to that new exhibition in town.
- So let’s go for a bite somewhere.
- So you want to grab a coffee down the road?
- Hey maybe we can go clubbing.
- What about/how about catching a film? [+_ing form]
- What about/how about a film tonight? [+ noun]
- We should check out that bar by the river. [we use ‘that’ for when we know what we’re referring to – maybe we talked about ‘that bar’ last week]
- I’d love to see that new film, ‘Great Facebook Selfies’. What do you think/reckon?
- I’m going to the restaurant at the station. Come and join me if you’re free.
- I’ll be at the big match later. You should come too. [You can say this to someone you know well – I personally wouldn’t use this to ask a girl out for the first time, but I know some people who do.]
- Why don’t we check out the new Cat Cafe..?
- Let’s just go somewhere close.. [using ‘just’ sounds like you don’t want a big night, just something cool and relaxed]
Expressing Agreement And Responding
Sounds great
Wonderful | Awesome | Cool
I’m down with that – I’m ok with that, I agree [used more in the USA]
I’m up for that [used more in Australia and Britain]
Yeah, why not.
Verbs Used To Talk About Going Out
Stay in – stay at home
Eat out (at a restaurant)
Head out somewhere – to go somewhere, to another place
Head off – leave: “What time should we head off..?”
Go into town – to go to the centre
Bar-hop – go from bar to bar all evening
Go clubbing – go to a club and dance
Have a quiet drink – go for a drink and a quiet chat
Go for a drink | a bite | a stroll (walk)
Go on a date
Grab a coffee – go for a coffee
Take a photo | selfie – note that this is with ‘take’, not ‘make’
Dress up – dress nicely, not in casual clothes
Queue up/line up outside a club
Pop in – go inside a cafe/bar eg “This looks nice. Let’s pop in.”
Come along – join me/us: eg “Do you want to come along with us?”
Check out – have a look, go inside: eg “That place looks great. Let’s check it out!”
This Bar v. That Bar
If you’d like to suggest a place that you haven’t mentioned before to your friend, and which you don’t think they know about, we often use ‘this’ to refer to it:
I know this great place next to the park. What about going there?
If you both spoke about a place or are some way familiar with it, you can use ‘that’ to refer to it:
I went to that cafe by the river. It’s got the best cake in town!
Wordbank
I’ve been dying to see it = I really want to see it, and have wanted to see it for a while
That sounds like a plan – (fixed phrase to express agreement) that sounds good
Tara says
Great topic! Great phrases that sound very natural and friendly. I’m dying to use those expressions. Thank you very much for sharing.
David Sweetnam says
Haha, thanks Tara 🙂
David
Francisco Javier says
What an interesting and useful post! This is the kind of thing that students will benefit the most from.
Great expressions. You´re right, some people sound “too formal” when speaking the language. That´s why I always recommend watching as many movies and series as possible – their everyday language is priceless.
Cheers.
Francisco Javier says
By the way, I can watch Netflix from Spain (I pay the subscription) and I´ve got hundreds of movies, series and documentaries available to me. Great for students and teachers of English!
David Sweetnam says
Hi Francisco
Thanks for visiting! I’m glad to be writing again. Will aim for one decent post a week..
I can’t get Netflix from here, but I’ve been wondering what all the fuss is about. I’ve got a few films from Spain through iTunes, but there’s not much of a choice. I’ll hopefully visit your country soon and will grab a lot of films and TV shows for watching when back home 🙂
David
Francisco Javier says
Good, keep up your Spanish!
Besides, it´s always very convenient if you want to pick up Spanish girls, ha,ha.
David Sweetnam says
Haha, yeah, I reckon I can be a decent B2 in the next 6 months if I have enough hours. Have slowed down a little this week as my teacher in Brno left for another school..
Have a good night
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